Today brought Matt and I another new experience: our first Haitian wedding. One of Matt's fourth year students got married this morning, and I was asked to be the photographer. The invitation for the wedding said the wedding was at 9 am. Christophe came to us yesterday, asking me to be there early, at 9:45, to take pictures. I wasn't sure how 9:45 could be considered for a 9 am wedding, but we showed up then. We waited 45 minutes, and then at 10:30, the bride and groom showed up. There were hundreds of people there, and the bride and groom immediately marched down the aisle. They then sat face to face next to their maid of honor and best man, ring bearer and flower girl for the whole service. Consistent with cultural norms, the bride refused to smile the entire day...making my job as the photographer a little difficult. Three different choirs sang, all in matching dresses.
Our personal favorite part was the soundtrack. Each time something interesting happened, such as the exchanging of the vows or the start of sermon, they would play the old Superman theme song...LOUD. I just couldn't stop laughing while I was taking pictures! It was truly a fun wedding, and it was great to see so many of our students that have been on Easter break there.
Just spending some time with them reminded us all over again why we are here. Their humility, passion, talents and hunger to share the gospel encourages us. Being away from friends, family and the comforts of home is bearable whenever we are assured of His call on our lives to serve Him here, and the Lord frequently uses these guys to confirm that calling.
hello stacey from paul catrell. I have been trying to get caught up on your blog tonight. I praise the Lord for what He is doing in your lifes. I praise you and Matt for letting the Lord work in your lives and allowwing Him to use you on the mission field. I try and pray for you two.
ReplyDeleteThe Superman theme ofton plays when I walk into a room. I hate when that happens.
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Hi Matt & Stacey -
ReplyDeleteIt amazes me as "obsessed" with time and time issues as Americans are that really does not seem to be a Haitian concern.
It looked like a lovely wedding and everyone appeared to be having a good time (even if the bride did not smile). It seems like it was a true gala event.
I was so glad when you said you laughed when the Superman theme played because I burst into laughter when I was reading your blog. Do you have any idea "why" the Superman theme??
I am glad it was a fun day for the two of you!
Love ya, Lori